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Posted by on January 31, 2017

Maybe the best stuff ever isn’t the stuff that’s planned. 

For instance, after picking up my two crazies from school, my daughter came into our bedroom where I was lying in bed. She had a look on her face that I read as frustrated towards her brother or hungry because she didn’t have time to finish her lunch. Her eyes were half droopy, half sadness and I mentioned that a hug would be in order. She silently agreed by her actions. 

We started out sitting upright, legs tucked underneath each other. I let her rest her head on my shoulder and I gently rubbed her back. After a few minutes, I released my arms but she remained fixed in her position, only loosening her grip to sigh, turn her head or hold my hair in her hand. 

In this embrace, I felt every feeling I’ve been dealing with for the last week. While I’ve remained quiet and withdrawn with my opinions, I have been depressed, anxious and deeply fearful. Not once have I expressed it out loud to my children. Not one time did I give the indication that I was feeling like I had turned myself outside in. I tried so hard to keep that from my family. 

But this hug, this embrace from my daughter was like seeing light at the bottom of a well. It felt like hope. It nurtured me. I was like being in church, one with no judgement and surrounded by understanding and unity. 

Yes, this hug was the mother of all hugs. 

For a few moments I thought that maybe she had drifted to sleep. Minutes past quickly as we cuddled together. Nothing but warmth and collective love between us. 

43 minutes. 43 minutes of embrace. Truthfully, I don’t remember doing anything for 43 minutes straight that I loved as much as hugging my daughter. I tried to think of a comparison but there really isn’t any. 

As she loosened her arms from around my shoulders, she asked if we could finish A Series of Unfortunate Events before dinner. Back to reality, I guess. Back to our routine. I was already switching my mindset to dinner spaghetti and where my notebook was pta meeting

Suddenly, those 43 minutes were in the past but I can’t forget how her little squeeze renewed me for a few moments. It healed my heart for a little while. I think it did the same for her. 

Today, as I dropped off my daughter at her classroom, she asked..

Can we hug again today?

t.r.m.

Blogger’s Note: My kids really love the new show A Series Of Unfortunate Events. While its premise is dark and brooding at times, it is worth a watch. Hopefully, a good cuddle is all you’ll need to enjoy. 

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  1. Real MomTime
    February 1, 2017

    Beautiful post. ????

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